Changing Jobs won’t fix your burnout

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I know many of you read that headline and thought, 'Heresy! You don't know my work culture.' My answer is: maybe — and temporarily. Sometimes changing jobs is exactly the ticket. And sometimes burnout follows you right through the door of your shiny new office.

I know that many of you read the title of this post and thought, "Heresy! Carolon, have you lost your mind?" And also: "You don't know my work culture. If I leave this place and go somewhere with a better boss and a better culture, my burnout will go away."

My answers are: maybe — and temporarily.

Sometimes changing jobs, even in the same company, is exactly what helps. And sometimes it's just a band-aid. Because if you only treat the symptoms and not the root causes, burnout is very likely to show up again.

ctly what helps. And sometimes it's just a band-aid. Because if you only treat the symptoms and not the root causes, burnout is very likely to show up again.

What actually needs to change

Effectively addressing burnout means working on three things:

1 Your internal patterns

The mind chatter and associated behaviors that keep you on the 24/7 stress treadmill — regardless of where you work.

2 Your leaders and their practices

Creating burnout-resistant environments where people are supported and workloads are sustainable.

3 Your organization's culture

Building work cultures that don't systematically burn people out in the first place.

Today, let's talk about your part in the equation. I can already see the eye rolls. I hear you: "This is not my fault. It's this job and this boss." And yes — the environment matters. But there are also things we bring to the table that create the perfect conditions for burnout to take hold. Here are a few of them:

Patterns worth recognizing

The must-be-perfect mindset. The "I need to prove myself" mantra. The belief that when things go wrong, the answer is to work harder. Not asking for help because it feels like weakness. Believing that no one else does it as well as you — so you need to do it yourself.

Which one or two (or all of those) gave you that familiar ping of recognition? Each one is a thought pattern and a way of behaving that fuels burnout. When we believe we can't make a mistake, we overthink everything and avoid asking for help — which keeps us in a cycle of doing more and trusting ourselves less.

A reflection practice worth trying

Grab a journal or piece of paper. Write without editing or filtering. Just write.

• What benefit does holding on to this way of thinking give me?

• What is it costing me?

• What possibilities open up when I flip this thought? (For example: "No one is perfect. I am learning. It's okay to make a mistake.")

• What actions would I take if I didn't hold myself to this unrealistic expectation?

• What is one baby step I can take to remind myself to approach things differently — in this job, or the next one?

Awareness of these thought processes is half the battle. It is an opportunity to make a choice. You can do what you have always done — or you can choose to take a different action.

A question to take with you

If you took your current patterns into a new job, what would probably be different — and what would probably look exactly the same?

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Carolon Donnally, MSOD, PCC

Burnout Resistance Coach · Trainer · Strategic Organization Consultant

Carolon helps high-achieving leaders and mission-driven organizations do great work without burning themselves or others out. She is a former Head of Leadership Coaching at the IRS, holds an MSOD from Pepperdine University, and is an ICF PCC credentialed coach. Her work is grounded in 20+ years of real-world experience — and her own experience on the other side of burnout.